Uber Fun Weekend

I had yet another fun weekend with CoDizzy! Friday we has a bbq at my moms, followed by an all day trip to the Salt Flats on Saturday.

But our fun didn't end there. Cody scored some tickets to see Aaron Lewis from Staind. I must say his voice is just as amazing in person. He carries such a unique tune, I have yet to hear of anyone that can replicate it. The best part of the show was at the end... No mic, just him and his guitar. His voice still radiated through the room. Such an amazing show. Defenitely will be going again when he comes to Salt Lake or Wendover.

We ended our night in a mini suite at the Montego Bay. Room was complete with a King size luxury bed, Hot tub jacuzzi in the room, a shower that doubled as a steam sauna and to top it off, Cody's arms for me to cuddle in.

I don't know how I will ever top that. I have a few things in mind, but only time will tell...

Xoxo,
Me

He's a Keeper...

So, I've already came to the conclusion about Cody being a keeper a long time ago, but this guy is worth bragging about. He has seen me at some of my lows and last night was definitely in my top 5 moments of wanting to drop off the face of the Earth.

Many friends and family know that I have been trying to pay off a few things so that when I file for divorce so that I have nothing keeping me financially tied to my ex. But after a series of events I don't care to elaborate on, I've decided I am going to count my losses on this one and be done with it.

It seems that no matter what I try to do so that I don't screw myself financially, somehow the ex makes some choices that lead to consequenses that in turn fall back on me. The longer I wait for things to happen, they just don't get taken care of.

(Que in the "Knight in Shining Armor" music)

Cody was working in Idaho yesterday and felt helpless knowing he couldn't do anything to help my situation. So last night in the midst of a psychological mind fuck, he calls me and tells me he misses me and is sorry he couldn't be there for me earlier. And to make things even better, rather than going home after a 16 hour work day, he drove straight to my work just to hold me and make me calm.

It's the little things like that that makes me fall more and more in love with this guy. He knows how to treat and lady and knows just the right things to say to better my mood.

I feel truely blessed to have him in my life. I tell him that every day. And even though I remind him constantly, I tell him just once more as a just in case.

And it's not just Cody that has helped me through this hard time in my life. I have an amazing support system of friends and family.

My cousin Shelly is helping me with the divorce process every step of the way. My mom and my brothers are always there for me if need be. My nieces are my reason for existance. And my best friend worries enough for the both of us I know where I may faulter, she with be there to pick me up and strive to put me back together.

Kacey even went out of her way to call me on all her breaks and when she got home to make sure I was okay.

I love each and everyone in my life for making me who I am today. If I have left anyone out I hope you know that you all have impacted my life in many ways and I value each and every one of you.

Amazing conversational quotes from T-Rizzie and CoDizzy

After a belly full of laughs this weekend, I decided to share the funnyisms that I share with the Cody.

This first story takes place a few weekends ago at a furniture store. Cody and I were looking at furniture to get an idea of what he wants for his house when he decides to buy. We came across a rather sexy looking black  leather sectional with ottoman. For twenty minutes I tried selling him this couch :)


T: "This premium leather sofa makes any bachelor pad complete! These cushions are rather awesome to sink into when snuggling up to your loved one while watching a movie... It's also good on the knees and makes for easy clean up!"

C: "Stop that..."

T: (insert Kitty Crawl across the ottoman) "You know I would look really cute sitting on this couch..."


C: "And you are in the wrong job because you would make and excellent furniture saleswoman."


Unfortunately I was unsuccessful on this purchase... But I'm still working it.


Today at Walmart we ran into my parents. The cart had some unnecessary purchases (ie: fire pit on sale $31, lawn chairs... swiffer wet jet). My mom asked me what it was all for and I responded that I talk him into a lot of things he just doesn't need.

The conversation in produce between us went as follows...


T: "Now I feel bad... you don't have to buy the fire pit and chairs if you don't want to. I just love being able to sit by a fire with friends, roast marshmallows and have a few beers."

C: "It's ok because you let me frolic in your fun places."

A New Beginning!!!

We'll everyone, I haven't fallen off the face of the Earth, just been going out and having fun, making new friends. Enjoying life really.

As many know I have been dating an amazing guy recently and I am excited to see where it goes. At first I was worried because I wasn't sure how those close to me would react or feel about me dating so soon. I was expecting be criticized in every way possible, and maybe I have... but someone close told me that I  shouldn't have to sit around moping. I should be able to move on with my life, and if this guy I am dating is cool with the situation, then go for it!

Even friends and family told me if a guy could make me smile the way he does, I need to keep him around... I think I will.

Chivalry is definitely not dead with this one. He's a real gentleman who aims to keep me happy.  He takes me to events, we hang with friends... I even made a few new ones this past weekend.

So my adventures continue. Who knows where the path may lead, but I definitely feel it's going in the right direction.

Xoxo
-Me